The Power of Just Showing Up
- Carrie McWherter

- 7 days ago
- 2 min read
Recently, I hopped on a virtual networking call a couple of minutes early… and it was just the host and me.
Awkward? A little.
But that one-on-one turned into a wonderful chat full of laughter, shared ideas, and a connection that never would’ve happened in a full Zoom room. It reminded me that showing up, even when it feels a little uncomfortable, opens doors in the most unexpected ways.
And honestly? That’s the perfect mindset.
February is still early enough in the year to lean into a fresh start, especially with networking. But let’s be real—it can feel a lot like trying to get back into a workout routine. You want the results… but that first step? It’s the hardest.
Sound familiar? You might feel:
A little rusty logging into the call
Unsure of what to say when it’s your turn
Like your background isn’t quite right
Wondering how chatty the group will be
But you know what? Every time you show up, it gets easier. You contribute. You connect. And you leave feeling proud.

5 Ways to Ease Back In
Here are a few simple ways to make virtual networking feel easier this year:
✔ Start small. Just pick one meeting this month. You don’t have to commit to weekly calls—just dip a toe back in.
✔ Check your tech. A quick mic and camera test helps you avoid flustered starts (and calms your nerves). ✔ Prep a simple intro. You don’t need a polished pitch. A friendly “Here’s who I help and how” does the trick. ✔ Set a mini-goal. Share one resource. Say hi in the chat. Send one follow-up message. Small steps build momentum.
✔ Celebrate showing up. Seriously—give yourself credit for showing up. You took action. That’s a win.
Virtual networking is one of the easiest ways to stay visible, grow your reach, and build genuine relationships—all from the comfort of home. It’s about small, steady steps that help you stay visible.
You’ve got this.



